Parenting

Woman counseling mother and son dealing with parenting issuesWoman counseling mother and son dealing with parenting issues
From the profound experience of pregnancy, birth, and the array of postpartum feelings, sometimes including the heart-wrenching experience of postpartum depression to the exciting and wondrous years of parenting to follow parenting is one of life’s greatest opportunities to grow. Out of love for our children and desire to give them our best, we are inspired to work on ourselves and look at our issues and hidden suffering to avoid passing those pains through the generations. Parenting brings up the places within us that need our attention and care by challenging us in ways nothing else can.
From the profound experience of pregnancy, birth, and the array of postpartum feelings, sometimes including the heart-wrenching experience of postpartum depression to the exciting and wondrous years of parenting to follow parenting is one of life’s greatest opportunities to grow. Out of love for our children and desire to give them our best, we are inspired to work on ourselves and look at our issues and hidden suffering to avoid passing those pains through the generations. Parenting brings up the places within us that need our attention and care by challenging us in ways nothing else can.
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In addition to looking at our personal issues that affect parenting, sometimes we need advice and insight into how to handle the complex and incredibly important situations that arise with our children. Whether you want to help your children develop a loving sibling relationship with each other, or you have the pain and confusion of a school-age or teenage child who is floundering or a dynamic in the family that is creating chaos or hurt, we would be glad to guide you through these sometimes overwhelming parenting moments and help you create the home life you want.
We are never so defenseless against suffering as when we love.
- S Freud

 “From error to error, one discovers the entire truth.
- S Freud

Teen and adolescent issues including juvenile justice issues

Several of our clinicians Mrs. Castaneda, Mrs. Gutierrez, Ms. Abdul, Mrs. Evans, and Ms. Coskun have backgrounds in Law Enforcement and specifically the Juvenile Justice system. At Chances MFC, we understand the unique challenges of the adolescent years. The pressures and constant challenges placed on teens today are unlike anything seen in the past, and we provide a space for mindful reflection, growth, and positive change. Our therapists are trained and experienced in working with teens who are experiencing difficulty with anxiety, depression, substance use, relationship or family concerns, and other mental health concerns. We often hear from parents and teens that our therapists are easy to talk to and are able to naturally connect with their clients, even those who are less open to coming to therapy. Additionally, parents appreciate the opportunity for their teens to connect with positive, ethical, and caring professionals. In providing therapy for teens, we build a safe and confidential relationship in order for change to take place. Parent involvement depends on age, desire of the teen, and level of danger, but in general, we keep information shared in session private in order to build trust between our teen clients and their therapist. Teen therapy is a judgment-free zone, which can sometimes be very different than what adolescents experience in almost every other part of their life, such as at school, home, and in their friendships.